It drives me insane that I can never remember
anything from my childhood - only fragments which don't help me to see the
whole picture anymore. I only remember flavours, scents, emotions and bits and pieces
of conversations I once had or heard. I can also evoke a few very inaccurate mental images.
I've just read
two posts where people described something that had happened a long time ago -
they described it in an amazing amount of detail. But my mind is blank. I don't
remember the names and faces of neighbours my mum talks about and I even
struggle when recalling names of the teachers and schoolmates I once knew so well. Is it due to my
profession; due to the fact that I constantly have to learn new things so my
brain needs to select and dispose of old pieces of information? Is it fair then to ask my students to talk about their earliest memories when I myself don't know what to say?
At the moment I'm
trying to recall what I did on November 17, 1989 - precisely 25 years ago, when
the history of our country had taken a totally different course. Unfortunately,
I haven't got a clue when I think about the day. It was exactly one day after
my 17th birthday. Damn! I don't even remember what I did on my birthday. I was
only 17 and I wasn't in love so there's nothing special to remember. What if the police banged on my door and asked me to remember? What if it helped to solve an important
case? The information must be somewhere there at the back of my brain.
Let's try again. I
was in my penultimate year at the secondary school. I remember that the final
year students were in Prague on an educational trip. They were in the
epicentre. I don't know how I actually learnt about what had happened. It must
have been the conspiratorial whispers and the frightened glances of the teachers. I
bet our headmaster was worried on that day. Some time ago he had punished my classmate Petr for his little rebellion - for inscribing the name of Václav Havel on his pencil case - and now crowds were chanting his name in the capital city. That was certainly disturbing. What my headmaster didn't know on that day was that a picture of the once despicable Havel was going to be displayed in every classroom soon.
I remember a
meeting in the gym - I'm not sure whether it was on that day tough. It was definitely around that time. It was
exciting because we didn't have regular lessons. We were all sitting on the parquet floor. The
atmosphere was full of anticipation. To my mind there were four groups of
teachers - the brave ones, the cowards, the angry ones and the neutral ones.
The brave ones openly sided with the protesters and thus risked being sacked.
The cowards remained silent because they had families to feed. The angry ones were pro-communist and pointed their fingers in a threatening manner. The
neutral ones didn't care or they were just cautious. I don't blame any of them.
I wondered which side our class teacher was on. I thought she was the cautious
one. I don't know now.
Oh dear, it must
have been so difficult for the adults - it must have been the cause of many sleepless nights and the worst nightmares. Nobody knew what the ultimate result
would be. Nobody knew whether to speak or remain silent. My father was over the moon though. He had refused to join the communist
party despite all the minor threats. My mother had surrendered because she was
afraid for her kids' future. There may have been another reason; her deceased father, my beloved granddad, used to
be a big shot in the past. But I know nothing about him. I think he was a
director of a big company or something. He died when I was six. I only remember
his affection towards me. I remember how much he loved me - his only
granddaughter. I remember how he played with me, wearing his funny cap...
Anyway, my parents argued
on that evening. My mom was almost hysterical because she was terrified; my father
spoke with a victorious intonation. I remember I was confused and felt sorry
for my mom. I had never seen her like that. I just wanted her to stop feeling the terror, but not being a mother myself, I didn't understand anything at all. Oh, and my little brother was probably
in bed, dreaming his sweet dreams of ignorance.
It was one of the
least violent demonstrations in the history of the whole world. That's why it's called the Velvet Revolution after all. Czechs were
ready and ripe to embrace the change. The fact that I don't really remember much of it proves that luckily, at least for the younger generations, it
wasn't a very traumatic experience. Even nowadays, in the 21st century, there are so many fights and wars small kids will remember for the rest of their lives if they happen to survive, so I'm proud November 17 wasn't one of those nasty moments in the history